I need help

A pregnancy is not always accompanied by joy and feelings of happiness. We understand that. If the pregnancy is unplanned, unwanted and has to remain a secret, it can trigger feelings of anxiety and worry.

Call us; we'll listen to you and provide you with competent help right away. We share your worries. Your call will be dealt with in confidence and full anonymity. We are a professional advice centre staffed with experts from the social, medical and legal professions who are at your service free of charge.

In an emergency or if you require urgent pregnancy counselling, you can reach us outside office hours and at the weekend or on public holidays.

The counselling service is available by telephone 0800 811 100 (calls are free), e-mail helpline(at)shmk.ch, or on the spot in a personal talk at the hospital (contact address).

Offers of help

  • Counselling and support both during pregnancy and also after childbirth
  • Material and financial assistance after clarification of the circumstances
  • Provision of local addresses and offers of help
  • Checking on possibilities of income support, help with the preparation of a budget
  • Cooperation with other help organisations
  • Free legal advice on maternity issues (employment, children's rights, paternity, alimony, etc.)

True stories from the emergency unit of the Swiss Aid for Mother and Child (SAMC) foundation

Post-natal help

Mrs. V is a farmer from the western part of Switzerland and the mother of two children. For some years she has suffered from a muscular illness that has hindered her in her daily work. Nevertheless she dreams of having a large family, especially now she has taken over a farm with her husband. Lady Luck appears to be on her side as she receives news that she is expecting a third child. But a routine medical check reveals that not all is well: pregnancy and birth could well cause her medical condition to deteriorate! Mrs. V ignores the prophecy of doom.

She is over the moon at the prospect of having another child. The months pass by and she finally gives birth to a healthy child. But scarcely is the post-partum period over than Mrs. V begins to show signs of the predicted significant worsening in her condition, and she is soon completely incapable of working on the farm. Her family is confronted by other hard knocks, too: the health insurance fund promptly informs her that they are unwilling to cover the cost of her treatment. On the farm, several veal calves suddenly die for no apparent reason.

And if that were not enough, the man with whom Mr. V. was planning to establish a supplementary business venture dies in a tragic road accident! Without a supplementary income, the burden of the farm's agricultural debts begins to weigh heavy.

Now, Mrs. V really does not know any way out. So she turns to the SAMC's emergency unit. In talks with the counsellor, Mrs. V asks for financial assistance. The counsellor listens attentively to the story and decides that Mrs. V's dire situation is a consequence of her commitment to her child. She has earned the support of the SAMC!

The family now receives a monthly allowance. But the counsellor knows how she can provide Mrs. V with even more help: she gives her expert advice in all social matters, and agrees to contact other relief organisations in Switzerland on her behalf. She literally succeeds in spreading the burden on the mother across several shoulders:

two well-known Swiss relief organisations agree to participate in a similar manner to the SAMC. And immediately, the family is receiving three times the support it had before! Deeply moved by the help she has received, Mrs. V is not only overjoyed with her child, but is happy that there are evidently so many good people in Switzerland willing to help.

Survived: a pregnancy under fear of death

A young woman contacts the Swiss Aid for Mother and Child foundation via the free telephone service. "My 17-year-old sister is 5 months pregnant. Our father mustn't get to hear of this because he lives according to the traditional morals of a society whose code of honour says that he must kill his pregnant daughter in order to "restore the family's honour." Because of her father's attitude, M sees an adoption as the only way out and is desperately seeking help from the SAMC.

The counsellor gives the caller encouragement and ensures her that "We will accompany M through the trouble and strife of the coming months!" In order for M to carry and give birth to her child without living in perpetual fear for her life, it is arranged that she should attend a language course in a different canton.

In addition, the SAMC arranges legal aid for M, as the underage mother and her baby require protection in this complicated situation.

Finally the date arrives: baby E is born. The new-born child so touches the mother's emotions that she hasn't the heart to give it up for adoption! A cousin who has been let into the secret is to take care of the baby until M has completed her apprenticehip and is financially independent. The SAMC presents M with a pram and other baby paraphernalia. In addition, it pays M a monthly allowance towards the cost of raising the child.

"It's a miracle," says the heart

Christine (30) is the mother of a one-year-old daughter. Now she’s expecting again. The father won't entertain the idea of keeping the child. In ten days' time, she has an appointment with the gynaecologist. "When I was out there yesterday," she wrote in a letter to the SAMC, "two ladies from the church gave me a brochure with pictures of a child developing in the womb. I think that was a sign that I should keep the child. But my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion; he's even threatened me."

The counsellor from the emergency unit knows that the only course of action now is to help the child survive. A flurry of e-mails are exchanged. The morning before the medical appointment, the counsellor sends Christine the following poem:

It's a miracle, says the heart.
It's a great responsibility, says the mind.
It's a lot of worry, says fear.
It's a gift of God, says faith.
It's an enormous challenge, says experience.
It's the greatest joy, says love.

The day after the medical appointment, the counsellor receives an e-mail: "When my boyfriend came home from work, the first thing he said was: 'Did you get rid of it?' I said No; he was angry and said: 'What are you waiting for? Make an appointment on Monday!'" Although Christine is frightened, she stays firm with the help of her counsellor. Five months later comes the news: "I've had a daughter, Caroline; we're both fit … and happy." The counsellor sends Christine a present on the birth of her child. She also receives financial support from the SAMC and can rest assured that she will receive help for as long as she needs it.